Animals and Life

[figmo]

As I continue to grapple with the sudden loss of two people who were each dear to me, along with the loss of Warren's brother, I look for signs of life.

Yesterday Warren and I went out to the stable where dimakoi's roommate keeps her horse. dimakoi was in charge of feeding that day, so we were getting our "horse fix."

There's something about inter-species interaction that I really enjoy. Connecting with another being who has their own, very different way of communicating really thrills me. I'm still learning "horse speak," which is different from "dog speak" or "cat speak." When a horse leans over to give me a "hug" or a "kiss," though, there's no mistaking that for anything else (yes, horses "kiss"). The horses seem to like me, which makes me feel good. Dogs and I already have a good rapport; somehow they can tell I'm a "dog person" (or an "animal person").

This morning and afternoon I've spent extra time on Lady. She's overdue for a haircut, and I was debating whether to try to do it myself. There's something calming about just brushing her for both of us. She rests patiently while I groom, and I get to handle lots of soft, white, cottony doggie fur. There's something soothing about the "doggie love noises" she makes. I've got a killer headache right now. I suspect the weather is playing a strong part. I don't know whether I want to try to eat something spicy to get endorphins going (which could also aggravate my jaw pain and won't help my weight) or try to sleep it out (I'm not at all tired).

With all the stuff going on around me it's easy to forget to take care of oneself. I don't dare do that. I've got a small white creature depending upon me.

Comments

Pets I never had

[duncanmac.livejournal.com]

I know this may sound strange, but references like this make me feel like the Tin Woodman. :-/

I also notice the difference when I find articles like this.

When I was a kid, my parents refused to let me have any pets -- not even fish. I have grown up and lived without any pets, but I am beginning to be aware of the void this has left. My roommate had a cat ... and I definitely enjoyed its presence, though I regret not doing very much about cleaning up after it.

Now the cat has been gone for over a year and I am again in waiting mode. Since my roommate has decided against having pets for the time being (and is currently looking for work) a new pet is not likely to happen for a while. I too may soon be looking for work, so I certainly cannot afford caring for a pet or to move out on my own.

Maybe someday.

Re: Pets I never had

[capplor.livejournal.com]

Some fish are cheap. We had self-supporting goldfish, in an outdoor pond. Budgies (Small parakeets, usually $10-$20 at a pet store) are a lot more interactive and other than set-up costs, low maintenance.

[shadowe_wraithe]

Yes dear one, you had better take care of yourself...because we love you...and you need to be around a long, long time yet...

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Shadowe (and family)